Saturday Night Blogging!

Fun times! Hubby is working this weekend and I am stuck home alone with the kiddos watching reruns of cops! WOW! BORING! THANK GOD next weekend is a away weekend in Orlando for us or I would scream right about now!

I haven't blogged in ages. Not a lot of new stuff going on in the swing world. Wish it were.... things are slow and at a hold right now with our current couple. Not really sure what is going on with them. Last weekend we went out to a local bar to listen to a band. This band brings a lot of people who are in the lifestyle out to their venues because they themselves are in the lifestyle. Actually tonight most of our group are out listening to them in another town.

Last Saturday was fun. Met a few new couples. One thing I love about the lifestyle is that everyone seems to get along. The men can all bullshit together and the women can talk like they have known each other for years. There is very little if any catiness between the members of the groups. It was nice even though we had no playtime with anyone =( to get out and meet people in our area in the lifestyle.
One topic up for discussion is bi/girl on girl play. I consider myself straight. Up until know I have always put that label on myself. About a month ago I did some experimentation with one of our friends. I do not find her overly attractive but we get along well. We did some dirty dancing, some kissing and played with a double dildo together. I have to say a woman knows how to touch another woman, much better then most men but the whole idea doesn't get me overly excited.

Almost all the women in the lifestyle are bi sexual. They love girl on girl play and that is what most of the playdates are for. I really really really want to find some couples with the straight female! I think we will have better luck finding couples to play with that way.

Another random thought going on in my head- already, this early into our experiences with the lifestyle, I am seeing how much I prefer the lifestyle people over the vanilla people. Why you may ask? This is the simple reason:
There is a lot of drama with vanilla people. People get overly offended over EVERYTHING! And I mean EVERYTHING! They judge often and well you just can't talk to them life lifestyle friends. Last Saturday when we were out we were talking to another couple whohave been in the lifestyle for decades now. He is in his late 40's and he made two comments. 1) they ditched all vanilla friends and 2) you'll never see fights between lifestyle people. Why? Because men and women fight about jealousy issues. There simply is  none in this way of life. Its great!

So many random thoughts! So little time....