ANTICIPATION!

Its killing me right now! OMG! SO we were supposed to go to Kissimmee on Saturday but not got shit worked out so we can go Friday night instead! FREAKING OUT! WOW! The anticipation is killing me. Mainly because we have NEVER been to a resort take over before. So Glad our super sexy J and J are going with us and actually we are driving now together because of the way its working out! Soooooo  can't wait for 24 hours from now. Thinking questions up like, what will it be like? Will there be people I know? Ugly people? Fat People? Cool people? At least J and J will be going and we are all newbies together!

A few posts ago I started to talk about our first experience meeting a couple. Not sure if I mentioned but this was meeting J and J. Well it went like this....

We walked into the small downtown bar. This place is filled with hometown character and its a great atmosphere. Our plan as a couple was one drink and leave. Get out fast, not too much info given out and thats it. As we walked into the door we saw them ( we had facebooked them already without them knowing to see what they actually looked like in everyday life) She is a small thin girl (smaller then I and I am a size 3) and he was a smaller guy about the size of my husband. Not drop dead gorgeous people but friendly looking people. We make eye contact and sit down next to them. This is were the nerves settle in quick. We all start talking and suddenly it is wonderful. The men connect and I connect with him quick. She was very quiet, we were not too sure what she thought. We had a drink and spent about an hour and a half just talking.

We had planned on going out to a club together that evening so we decided it was time to leave. He was definately not my type, skinnier redneck guy. Typical Florida. Someone who I wouldn't normally be attracted to. My type is the metrosexual male.... We walk about to our car and say goodbye. That was awkward as hell because what do you do? Do you shake hands? hugs? kisses? Who the hell knows.

After that we talked about them. At the first meeting I wasn't completely sold that I was attracted to him that much, she was pretty for my husband but they were the polar opposities of us. Looking back that should have been the dead giveaway that they are the perfect swing couple for us.

That night went on, we went out to the club, met some cool yet very unattractive people. Got great tips and had a great couples night out. Had a ton of sex for the next days to come....

That following morning the couple we met instant messaged us. They liked us. He thought I was hot and his wife like my husband. I agreed that we all had a connection, I wasn't sure if I was connecting with him as much but I was willing to try them out again. We had decided that we would get our kids together next time for a cookout or something of the sorts so we could get a better feel for each other and spend some quality family time together as well.

The main lesson I took away from looking at this is never judge a swinger by the first date. Personality changes everything! Get physical quick, Go play pool, have a few drinks, get the families together etc... whatever it is get moving and get to know them. This isn't just about SEX its about friendships! (at least for us it is)