To go back to how it all started... My husband asked me, would this be something you want to try sometime? I really thought about it and my first question to myself was, is he unhappy? I quickly dismissed that instantly once I started to feel as if I wanted to try it. Once again I ask myself, Am I unhappy? How can this be? It all comes down to this. It is human nature to be attracted to the opposite sex. Us woman can fight the argument but we all know that in the end, we have yearnings and we have fantasies just as much as men do. Why not experience it all with our best friend?
One thing that we have experienced in this lifestyle is the spontaneous culture of this way of life. Still being new we have had fun with our friends on Fridays, Saturdays, Sundays and even Monday nights. We do not have sex with our friends every time we get together. Sometimes we get together for drinks at the local hangout and invite some vanilla friends along for the night. Sometimes we get our families together and let the kids play. Whatever it is we always seem to have fun.
Starting new with the lifestyle we will identify our friends by names other than what they really are to protect others identities. Our closest friends at the moment go by the names of J and J. We love to get together with this couple. The best parts are that we all have so much in common. The men have had similar careers and the women can talk up a storm for hours. An outsider would think that there would be jealous feelings towards the others for having sex with his or her spouse. This just isn't happening. The feelings are quite opposite. The guys can talk and talk for hours on end from everything from cars to sex. The women can go off and lay around talking about the past decade with her own spouse and talk intimate details.
This is one of the best parts of this lifestyle and being new to it. As a woman I have never had girlfriends that would ever be willing to be open enough to share sexual details of the spouse. It is not the social norm that we have been taught to live by. Thinking about the norm my new opinions are this, it sucks and let’s make the rest of our lives count. It is great. Last night for instance J told me that J has a new arousal spot and to try it on him. I did by the way and he loved every minute of it.
Last night was one of those nights that solidify for us all about why we are in the lifestyle and enjoy spending so much time with each other. We talked about everything. We ended up going overnight so that the girls could get some errands done in another part of the state the next day. We ended up sharing a suite in a hotel and had a lot of fun. We watched TV, talked, and shared spouses. What more could you ask for. Mind-blowing sex & laughs is always a A+ night in my book......
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