Before we get any further into this blog I would like to explain the lifestyle in more depth to everyone. Swinging- that we already defined. Now there are terms such as soft swap and full swap. Basically soft swap means making out, touching, flirting and oral sex. Full swap means everything. Basically it’s a wife swap. This is what my husband and I currently engage in with couples. Not everyone does full swap. We do.
There are rules and boundaries every couple must set before getting into the lifestyle. I will admit our rules have changed often. You need to reevaluate often. Talk more. Have sex with each other even more!
No means no. When we were looking into this lifestyle I heard this phrase used often but I did not put too much thought into it. I always thought, ya right, people are pushy I am sure. I never really understood how true it was. Everyone we have met so far are the most down to earth caring and respectful people we have ever met. There is never judgment. There is never second guessing. If you’re good everyone is good, if you aren’t no one is.
Vanilla- This refers to a friend who does not swing. If someone calls you vanilla then you know they are swingers! More education of swinging to come later in the blogs….
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