WOW! What a night! So this week has been a busy work week for both of us. Up until Wednesday my husband had planned on doing some work about an hour north of us for the weekend and I was going to stay home with the kids. Last minute I was able to get the grandparents to take the kids overnight so I could meet my husband after he got off work and go out and have a little us time out on the town.
For the past few weeks we have been talking to a couple we met through one of the swingers websites about getting together. They were a cute couple who lived about an hour away but traveled to our area often because they we trying to keep the lifestyle on the down low.
I emailed them since we were going to be in their area last night. It worked out well because they didn't have any plans and they really wanted to meet up they said. I have no expectations of people because I learned a while ago pictures can be deceiving. In both ways.
We agreed we would meet at a local bar and grill for a few drinks and just chat. Well we finally get to the bar after my husband has a VERY long work day and we immediately see them as we walk in the door. WOW WOW WOW
As the female counterpart in this lifestyle and meeting a lot of lifestyle people I have to say this was one of the top couples we have met on attractiveness level. We have met a lot of decent looking people but this topped it all.
We sat down for about an hour and had a few drinks and chatted. Great couple. We all had similiar interested and lines of work.We all just clicked. They quickly told us about there system with each other of signals and said we were a couple they would definately tell each other they wanted to be with.
Now this is where I have to add- in the last 6 months in the LS we have NEVER had sex with a couple we just met..... until. last night!
We went back to our hotel and had sooo much fun! The sex was awesome! The company was great. We all just had a wonderful time. I learned some new oral sex techniques and was pleasured more by this man then any other man aside from my husband. Just great sex. This is what the LS is about!!
Side note: something I Have learned through all this is that my husband has a larger then normal penis! Its a funny thought but true. Every man I look at now I seem to wonder, "how big is it?".
Too big is scary but just a random thought coming up in my head right now!
Definately want to get together again with this couple. Its been 6 weeks since our last play session so we were definately OVERDUE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now we are preparing for the hedo halloween party in a little less then 2 weeks! Can't wait for that!
Sunday, October 16, 2011
Saturday, October 8, 2011
Saturday NIGHTS OUT!
So both myself and my entire family has been sick for the past 2 weeks so blogging has gone by the wayside BUT now we are up and running again. Actually got a work out in today so I am happy! My kids and husband got that dreaded stomach flu! Thankfully that pasted me but last Friday I came down with the flu. Saturday night I did feel good enough to go out but then felt bad from Sunday on.
About last Saturday night:
We went out to a new semi local swingers night club. No playrooms on premise, mainly a meet and greet site. Its called Club 54 in Lehigh Acres here in Southwest Florida. My review: its iffy. Here was the deal. You paid $25 per couple just to get in and then the drinks themselves were between $4-$8. We met a couple we have been trying to meet up with for a while. That made the night worth it. We also took my favorite single guy friend out with us who was a "virgin" to the swingers club. He had a blast which also made it worth it. He actually found a nice single girl to spend the evening with. Downside: no one got booty! =( but it was a good night all and all. Though I do think my single guy friend made up for it a few nights later when he got a booty call from the girl he met!! Awesomeness.
You can't complain when you are surrounded by your swinger friends!
I think the club would be worth going back to if they had play rooms on site. Its in the middle of no where and about an hour from our house. Playrooms are what swingers are looking for in my opinion! We are here to find new people to make friends with YES but playing is FUN!
Tonight! We are going out for a short while. My husband and I are going to get dinner and drinks then we are meeting some LS friends at a local bar to hear a local swingers band. SWINGERS ARE EVERYWHERE! LOL Mixed with the vanilla folks it should be a good night. Would be fun to kiss someone new but I have no balls. I need to grow a pair (figuratively speaking)
I keep telling myself I need to become more aggressive but when it comes down to it its just not me. I want to be though. I guess I go back to the days of being vanilla and dating and the idea of rejection! I know I am hot (side story in a minute) and I should act like one hot bitch who has it all!
About being hot! Went into Walmart yesterday to go get a fill. For you guys living under a rock a fill is acrylic nails being "redone". Anyways! I was walking into walmart when a semi-attractive hispanic man about 5 years younger then me looks at me and says, "Your smoking hot". I look at him and reply "thanks". At this point he looks a little shocked. I don't know if its the rejection vanilla girls give to guys who throw random comments their way or not but he wasn't expecting such a positive response from me. I found it funny! And ballsy! I like that. A guy who can just throw it all out there. Not worried about rejection and give the compliments out! Girls love that by the way, well at least swinger girls do! This one does! haha
Well this girl has to get off.... maybe in more ways then one BUT need to pick out clothes for tonight. I think its going to be a tight jeans, 5 inch heels and a low cut top! Its going to be in the high 60's low 70's so gotta cover it up a bit but sexing it up as much as I can!
Have fun kids!
About last Saturday night:
We went out to a new semi local swingers night club. No playrooms on premise, mainly a meet and greet site. Its called Club 54 in Lehigh Acres here in Southwest Florida. My review: its iffy. Here was the deal. You paid $25 per couple just to get in and then the drinks themselves were between $4-$8. We met a couple we have been trying to meet up with for a while. That made the night worth it. We also took my favorite single guy friend out with us who was a "virgin" to the swingers club. He had a blast which also made it worth it. He actually found a nice single girl to spend the evening with. Downside: no one got booty! =( but it was a good night all and all. Though I do think my single guy friend made up for it a few nights later when he got a booty call from the girl he met!! Awesomeness.
You can't complain when you are surrounded by your swinger friends!
I think the club would be worth going back to if they had play rooms on site. Its in the middle of no where and about an hour from our house. Playrooms are what swingers are looking for in my opinion! We are here to find new people to make friends with YES but playing is FUN!
Tonight! We are going out for a short while. My husband and I are going to get dinner and drinks then we are meeting some LS friends at a local bar to hear a local swingers band. SWINGERS ARE EVERYWHERE! LOL Mixed with the vanilla folks it should be a good night. Would be fun to kiss someone new but I have no balls. I need to grow a pair (figuratively speaking)
I keep telling myself I need to become more aggressive but when it comes down to it its just not me. I want to be though. I guess I go back to the days of being vanilla and dating and the idea of rejection! I know I am hot (side story in a minute) and I should act like one hot bitch who has it all!
About being hot! Went into Walmart yesterday to go get a fill. For you guys living under a rock a fill is acrylic nails being "redone". Anyways! I was walking into walmart when a semi-attractive hispanic man about 5 years younger then me looks at me and says, "Your smoking hot". I look at him and reply "thanks". At this point he looks a little shocked. I don't know if its the rejection vanilla girls give to guys who throw random comments their way or not but he wasn't expecting such a positive response from me. I found it funny! And ballsy! I like that. A guy who can just throw it all out there. Not worried about rejection and give the compliments out! Girls love that by the way, well at least swinger girls do! This one does! haha
Well this girl has to get off.... maybe in more ways then one BUT need to pick out clothes for tonight. I think its going to be a tight jeans, 5 inch heels and a low cut top! Its going to be in the high 60's low 70's so gotta cover it up a bit but sexing it up as much as I can!
Have fun kids!
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