Boy what a week!! I am self employed in the insurance industry. It has been a bit slow here in Sunny Florida. All the older people are still in the northern states since its a whopping 95 degrees plus here almost every day. That has a slight effect on my weekly pay! ICK! Hopefully next week is a money making week.
On a note of money. I am currently thinking of opening an online adult store. Something I have been thinking about for a while now. Got in touch with a wonderful company to assist me and I would specialize in toys but I also want to carry all the get up that swingers love so dear. I.E- Double dildos, black light wear for parties, anything and everything fishnet for men and women, lubes of all colors and tastes etc....
Why do I want to do this? Well I want to tie it into the swingers thing and use my title of swing wife. Work the blog along with the store. I think it would be fun, the extra income would definately help and people need/want good priced adult stuff! You just never know who or where to buy it from half the time. Fun fun! I will keep everyone updated!
This past week we were supposed to meet up with a new couple but that fell through thanks to the flu! Ick!
Is everyone out there been sick in some way shape or form this past month? Its so darn hot I do not get it but its around here! Big time.
This weekend includes: me and the kids around the house! WOOHOO! Husband is working again! Can not wait for his schedule to back to normal! Can not wait! Need it to change. I like to have a little fun on the weekends!
Got stuff to do though and Saturday night I have been promised wine and beers at my house by one of our friends (also in the lifestyle but single) so we will see! That should be fun! A little typsy, good laughs... sounds like a good night in! Gotta save that $$ too!
$$$ that is a big complaint by a lot of people lately. They have none! They want to go out and do stuff but its expensive. We always seem to scrape by but maybe it was good to have some uneventful times lately!!
Ill keep everyone updated on the adult toy store idea! I really want to do it. Need my husband on board with the idea. That should not be too hard... Gotta market!
Have a great weekend everyone! BE SAFE!
Friday, September 16, 2011
Saturday, September 10, 2011
This lame weekend....
One word that could describe this weekend... LAME! Ended up sick last night, Friday and still feeling under the weather today along with my 4 year old! Fun times. The day has been spent by watching Netflix live streaming, drinking diet mountain dews, and snacking. Fun times. Much less eventful then last weekend but hey I guess we all need a weekend here and there to relax and kick back a little. My husband has to work this weekend anyways, he is on midnights so that pretty much was the final straw to a boring weekend.
Prior to getting sick I spent the night Thursday with my husband and one of my favorite single male friends that I have known for over a decade. He came over our house to hang with my husband and I. We stayed up way too late with a few drinks and bull shitting about everything. Trying to talk him into coming with us to a resort take over party right before Halloween. I hope I have convinced him but we will see. I KNOW a experience like this is something EVERYONE has to do at least once in their lifetime! I just want to be the evil influence upon society!
Wish we had more of a supply of sexy friends to introduce into the lifestyle and these parties. My husband and I had a discussion early this morning in bed when he came home from work. There is a co worker of his who was joking about sex with him last night. This man you could say is my husbands best work friend. They get along well and they are great people (both him and his wife) Sexy level is about a zero though. Bless their hearts..... He started talking about lesbian encounters his wife had prior to their getting married and talking about hooters waitresses and so on. He actually asked my husband a question that pertained to me and another woman and so on. My husband just laughs as he tells me this. We want to tell them about the lifestyle so badly but their is one glitch... we NEVER want to play with them. So for now we have agreed to stay quiet and just laugh along with the comments. My question is , how do you sway but not play?
No big plans really for tomorrow, its a Sunday. I am hoping my daughter wakes sickness free and my son completely bipasses the sickness. This could be a long week if he gets sick as well. Saying a little prayer that it just goes away..... Lysol and me are best friends!
Monday we do have a dinner date. A little nervous about it actually. Still being new we haven't gone out and met a lot of couples on a one on one basis. This couple we have checked out quite extensively. They are very attractive, just a few years older then us and live locally. They actually know a lot of the same people we know. It is funny how small the swingers world really us. We are hoping it goes well because they are very attractive. One thing that does make me nervous is that they are not married. They are in a committed relationship but not married, can I get anyones feedback on this?? What do you think about this and would this sway your opinions on swinging with them? They have been together for 2 years. Newer to swinging as well but around 30.
I want to say a big thank you to lost in nevada! He is trying to hard to get the word out on my blog! His blog is awesome as well, check him out at, http://lostinnevada.wordpress.com/
Thanks for reading and follow me!
Prior to getting sick I spent the night Thursday with my husband and one of my favorite single male friends that I have known for over a decade. He came over our house to hang with my husband and I. We stayed up way too late with a few drinks and bull shitting about everything. Trying to talk him into coming with us to a resort take over party right before Halloween. I hope I have convinced him but we will see. I KNOW a experience like this is something EVERYONE has to do at least once in their lifetime! I just want to be the evil influence upon society!
Wish we had more of a supply of sexy friends to introduce into the lifestyle and these parties. My husband and I had a discussion early this morning in bed when he came home from work. There is a co worker of his who was joking about sex with him last night. This man you could say is my husbands best work friend. They get along well and they are great people (both him and his wife) Sexy level is about a zero though. Bless their hearts..... He started talking about lesbian encounters his wife had prior to their getting married and talking about hooters waitresses and so on. He actually asked my husband a question that pertained to me and another woman and so on. My husband just laughs as he tells me this. We want to tell them about the lifestyle so badly but their is one glitch... we NEVER want to play with them. So for now we have agreed to stay quiet and just laugh along with the comments. My question is , how do you sway but not play?
No big plans really for tomorrow, its a Sunday. I am hoping my daughter wakes sickness free and my son completely bipasses the sickness. This could be a long week if he gets sick as well. Saying a little prayer that it just goes away..... Lysol and me are best friends!
Monday we do have a dinner date. A little nervous about it actually. Still being new we haven't gone out and met a lot of couples on a one on one basis. This couple we have checked out quite extensively. They are very attractive, just a few years older then us and live locally. They actually know a lot of the same people we know. It is funny how small the swingers world really us. We are hoping it goes well because they are very attractive. One thing that does make me nervous is that they are not married. They are in a committed relationship but not married, can I get anyones feedback on this?? What do you think about this and would this sway your opinions on swinging with them? They have been together for 2 years. Newer to swinging as well but around 30.
I want to say a big thank you to lost in nevada! He is trying to hard to get the word out on my blog! His blog is awesome as well, check him out at, http://lostinnevada.wordpress.com/
Thanks for reading and follow me!
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
Shhhh Don't let anyone know...
So today at my job I got a little short of words with a coworker. I was standing there while she was talking to a friend about her husband cheating on her. A few months back this lady found out that her husband was sleeping with another woman without her knowing and he actually got this other lady pregnant. Not a very smart man by any means. She was talking to this lady about the details. The conversation suddenly turned into talking about swingers somehow. I am not sure about how it did but seriously I had to bite my tongue. The women just started to judge. They yelled outloud about the grossness of swingers and swapping. I just came to a conclusion when I spoke to my husband about this... people are afraid of swingers and what they don't understand. They just don't get the permissions and the trust swingers have with each other. Its a complete fear. Very sad to see such closed minded people.
Now on to what I promised yesterday. More on our Labor Day weekend fun. Sunday was our wedding anniversary and we were supposed to just go off together and maybe do Disney World. I hurt my foot recently so I was not really up to walking the 3-5 miles that day around the park so we decided early in the morning to take up the ones couple offer and try to attend the party Sunday. We had to text or call the couple that was putting the party on because it was a private party group of about 40 couples and they are prescreened and selective. We texted them our picture and they quickly replied we were in. We swapped profiles on the websites and decided we needed to prepare for the party. It was a themed party at a martini bar. The theme was naughty nurses and doctors. My husband and I made a quick trip to walmart for scrubs for him. We got them back to the hotel and did a little surgery....
We cut the sleeves off the scrubs and we luckily had a second outfit for me that night. It was a cute two piece outfit that I made a nurses outfit. Very very sexy.....
Cutting out part of the day, we get to the party. Its on a corner of a street in a small little town outside of Orlando. It looks like any ordinary martini bar. I was very nervous. We sat in the car for 20 minutes waiting to see what the other couples looked like going in. My husband finally dragged me out and we went in.
As soon as we opened the doors we were surprised. This wasnt a martini bar, it was a cover. It was a swingers club. They had a dance floor, full bar, couches everywhere and a playroom. Even a couch in the womens bathroom. We signed our waivers and quickly proceeded over the beautiful marbled bar and got a drink. We didn't see the people who invited us yet so we sat there for a few minutes. We started seeing nothing but beautiful people EVERYWHERE. EVERYWHERE... and when I say beautiful... Everyone was under 45, cut, clean, gorgeous people. WOW! It was so refreshing...
Met some great fabulous couples. People were so open. Making out with each other anywhere and everywhere. Everyone was friendly. SOOO friendly. We felt like the cool kids. Did I say everyone was beautiful?
We danced for hours. We people watched. We ended up not playing with anyone but we had the time of our lives. We can't wait to take friends back. Couple friends, single friends, whoever they may be they HAVE to experience this. Can't wait to go back again!
Now on to what I promised yesterday. More on our Labor Day weekend fun. Sunday was our wedding anniversary and we were supposed to just go off together and maybe do Disney World. I hurt my foot recently so I was not really up to walking the 3-5 miles that day around the park so we decided early in the morning to take up the ones couple offer and try to attend the party Sunday. We had to text or call the couple that was putting the party on because it was a private party group of about 40 couples and they are prescreened and selective. We texted them our picture and they quickly replied we were in. We swapped profiles on the websites and decided we needed to prepare for the party. It was a themed party at a martini bar. The theme was naughty nurses and doctors. My husband and I made a quick trip to walmart for scrubs for him. We got them back to the hotel and did a little surgery....
We cut the sleeves off the scrubs and we luckily had a second outfit for me that night. It was a cute two piece outfit that I made a nurses outfit. Very very sexy.....
Cutting out part of the day, we get to the party. Its on a corner of a street in a small little town outside of Orlando. It looks like any ordinary martini bar. I was very nervous. We sat in the car for 20 minutes waiting to see what the other couples looked like going in. My husband finally dragged me out and we went in.
As soon as we opened the doors we were surprised. This wasnt a martini bar, it was a cover. It was a swingers club. They had a dance floor, full bar, couches everywhere and a playroom. Even a couch in the womens bathroom. We signed our waivers and quickly proceeded over the beautiful marbled bar and got a drink. We didn't see the people who invited us yet so we sat there for a few minutes. We started seeing nothing but beautiful people EVERYWHERE. EVERYWHERE... and when I say beautiful... Everyone was under 45, cut, clean, gorgeous people. WOW! It was so refreshing...
Met some great fabulous couples. People were so open. Making out with each other anywhere and everywhere. Everyone was friendly. SOOO friendly. We felt like the cool kids. Did I say everyone was beautiful?
We danced for hours. We people watched. We ended up not playing with anyone but we had the time of our lives. We can't wait to take friends back. Couple friends, single friends, whoever they may be they HAVE to experience this. Can't wait to go back again!
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Labor Day Weekend fun!
Where do I start on our Labor Day Weekend? We went to Orlando this past weekend, its about 2.5 hours from our house, for our anniversary fun weekend. We had planned on attending the Hedo Parties event on Saturday night in Kissimmee. Before this weekend we had been contacted by a couple from another town who was also attending the party. Cute couple, about a 5 year age difference. They filled the mold of potential play partners. After several chat sessions with them we agreed to meet with them the afternoon of the party to see if we all clicked. We ended up meeting them for a drink at a bar in the Orlando area. We had a great time. The woman was hysterical. She by far had the best personality of any woman we have met so far in the lifestyle. He had a wonderful personality as well. He was not quite what I was attracted to as much but his personality by far was over and beyond what I had expected. We talked for a few hours about past experiences, both good and bad and how we are were very similar in everyday life to each other.
We ended up agreeing to go back to their hotel room for some pre party drinks and conversation. Both us girls dressed similar in hot pink tops and we were ready for a black light party for the Hedo Party! We used some body paints I had purchased a few days before and we had lots of laughs. We were ready to go. We did take seperate cars to the party and danced for hours. At the party we met up with another couple that my husband has known outside the world of swinging for years. He is a dark, fit black man about 30 years old and his wife is mixed. Both are beautiful people who knew lots of other beautiful people. Definately the people you want to be friends with and more.
After we talked to them we hook up with the couple we met a few hours before. They also met with a couple they were put into contact with by mutual friends in the lifestyle. He was tall and slim and she was beautiful and quite handsy. She quickly took a hold of my husband and gave him all the go signals that she was ready for some fun with him. We all kept dancing and having laughs until about 1am. We all decided to leave together and go back to the hotel room for a 3 couple fun session.
This part of the night was a lot of fun but not quite the way I was hoping for it to end. My husband ended up with the handsy lady and I would have prefered to end up with her husband but instead I ended up with the other guy we had met earlier that day. He was a great sex partner, he brought me to climax several times that night, pushed the buttons nicely and overall brought a great time to the night. I ended the night by swapping back with my husband and we ended it nicely. For only the second round of people swinging with it was another great positive experience.
After we were all done we spent some time talking with each other. The more attractive couple invited us to a party the next night. We found out there was a "private party group" in the Sanford area of Florida that puts on pre screened parties. These parties are by invitation only but they were supposed to be a lot of fun. At the time we were not quite sure if we wanted to go to the party Sunday. Sunday was our 7 year anniversary. We told them we would think about it and went back to our hotel.
This is where I really enjoy the lifestyle. We had mind blowing sex. Love the after play sex. For some reason swapping makes you want your own so much for days later. Its crazy! Not sure how many times I went that night but definately had a great time.
More to follow on our Sunday adventure... Will try to post tomorrow!
We ended up agreeing to go back to their hotel room for some pre party drinks and conversation. Both us girls dressed similar in hot pink tops and we were ready for a black light party for the Hedo Party! We used some body paints I had purchased a few days before and we had lots of laughs. We were ready to go. We did take seperate cars to the party and danced for hours. At the party we met up with another couple that my husband has known outside the world of swinging for years. He is a dark, fit black man about 30 years old and his wife is mixed. Both are beautiful people who knew lots of other beautiful people. Definately the people you want to be friends with and more.
After we talked to them we hook up with the couple we met a few hours before. They also met with a couple they were put into contact with by mutual friends in the lifestyle. He was tall and slim and she was beautiful and quite handsy. She quickly took a hold of my husband and gave him all the go signals that she was ready for some fun with him. We all kept dancing and having laughs until about 1am. We all decided to leave together and go back to the hotel room for a 3 couple fun session.
This part of the night was a lot of fun but not quite the way I was hoping for it to end. My husband ended up with the handsy lady and I would have prefered to end up with her husband but instead I ended up with the other guy we had met earlier that day. He was a great sex partner, he brought me to climax several times that night, pushed the buttons nicely and overall brought a great time to the night. I ended the night by swapping back with my husband and we ended it nicely. For only the second round of people swinging with it was another great positive experience.
After we were all done we spent some time talking with each other. The more attractive couple invited us to a party the next night. We found out there was a "private party group" in the Sanford area of Florida that puts on pre screened parties. These parties are by invitation only but they were supposed to be a lot of fun. At the time we were not quite sure if we wanted to go to the party Sunday. Sunday was our 7 year anniversary. We told them we would think about it and went back to our hotel.
This is where I really enjoy the lifestyle. We had mind blowing sex. Love the after play sex. For some reason swapping makes you want your own so much for days later. Its crazy! Not sure how many times I went that night but definately had a great time.
More to follow on our Sunday adventure... Will try to post tomorrow!
Thursday, September 1, 2011
Getting ready for the weekend!
Who out there has exciting Labor Day Plans with their LS friends? Let me know about it. I love to hear about others adventures as well!
This weekend we are packing up Saturday to go to a party in Orlando. Going to the same resort we went to about a month ago for a Labor day party. Should be a lot of fun! Starting to get very excited as well. We are currently talking to another couple who will be attending as well. Had some great chats through the swinglifestyle page and they are a great match. The lady is not bi and the man is very normal. No weird S & M, Bi sexual man, kinky weirdo traits yet to be found! We are going to meet them pre party as well which is a good thing. They are very interested in playing which if we do will be our first time playing with a couple the same day we meet. Gotta broaden our horizons I told my husband. He thinks the lady is hot as hell. I have to agree. Very attractive woman. The man I am a little concerned about but I think that the personality will overrule this one and we should match great.
We also have another couple going that my husband has known for years. Unknowingly to him he has been in the lifestyle as well. Should be a great night! Can't wait!
Only down turn.... I hurt my foot at the gym! Currently I am home off work with my foot iced and elevated. I was looking forward to wearing my 6 inch Guess Sexy Heels! Hopefully I will still be able to but time will tell.
Gotta get a outfit still too. Its a white party with blacklights. This girl doesn't do white often but I want to find something super sexy, kinky, hot and makes a man go hard in 2 seconds flat! Oh ya! Def. getting excited for the weekend!
Last night I was looking on our SDC and swinglifestyle pages. Those are the two that we pay for and like the best. I had a couple we have been talking to for a while now message me. Now a little background, we have talked only on chat and text. Never met them in person. Everytime we try to get together they cancel or something comes up with us. We all have small kids at home so it happens! I get that. He wants to attempt another meetup and starts questioning me last night. We told him that we won't committ to play until we meet. We have said that over and over again. We told him sometimes we may need more then one meeting depending on compatibility and such. We also told him that I am not bi and my groundrules for that. Well last night he became very pushy... Questioning why we were even in the lifestyle because the only reason they are is for the girl on girl thing and that now he says they have only full swapped a handful of times. Its all about the girls. He even asked me if I would make an exception. I began to laugh because I just don't understand why or where this pushy nature comes from... There are so many in the LS and your trying to change established people? Definately not a couple we will be meeting. Too bad, haven't experienced any people like this yet. Quite the opposite which has made everything so GREAT!
If you read this page do me a favor! Become a followered and find me on twitter! Swingwife04! My dreams would be to get a good following and help educate and calm peoples fears on swinging. My other dream is to entertain and turn people on!
This weekend we are packing up Saturday to go to a party in Orlando. Going to the same resort we went to about a month ago for a Labor day party. Should be a lot of fun! Starting to get very excited as well. We are currently talking to another couple who will be attending as well. Had some great chats through the swinglifestyle page and they are a great match. The lady is not bi and the man is very normal. No weird S & M, Bi sexual man, kinky weirdo traits yet to be found! We are going to meet them pre party as well which is a good thing. They are very interested in playing which if we do will be our first time playing with a couple the same day we meet. Gotta broaden our horizons I told my husband. He thinks the lady is hot as hell. I have to agree. Very attractive woman. The man I am a little concerned about but I think that the personality will overrule this one and we should match great.
We also have another couple going that my husband has known for years. Unknowingly to him he has been in the lifestyle as well. Should be a great night! Can't wait!
Only down turn.... I hurt my foot at the gym! Currently I am home off work with my foot iced and elevated. I was looking forward to wearing my 6 inch Guess Sexy Heels! Hopefully I will still be able to but time will tell.
Gotta get a outfit still too. Its a white party with blacklights. This girl doesn't do white often but I want to find something super sexy, kinky, hot and makes a man go hard in 2 seconds flat! Oh ya! Def. getting excited for the weekend!
Last night I was looking on our SDC and swinglifestyle pages. Those are the two that we pay for and like the best. I had a couple we have been talking to for a while now message me. Now a little background, we have talked only on chat and text. Never met them in person. Everytime we try to get together they cancel or something comes up with us. We all have small kids at home so it happens! I get that. He wants to attempt another meetup and starts questioning me last night. We told him that we won't committ to play until we meet. We have said that over and over again. We told him sometimes we may need more then one meeting depending on compatibility and such. We also told him that I am not bi and my groundrules for that. Well last night he became very pushy... Questioning why we were even in the lifestyle because the only reason they are is for the girl on girl thing and that now he says they have only full swapped a handful of times. Its all about the girls. He even asked me if I would make an exception. I began to laugh because I just don't understand why or where this pushy nature comes from... There are so many in the LS and your trying to change established people? Definately not a couple we will be meeting. Too bad, haven't experienced any people like this yet. Quite the opposite which has made everything so GREAT!
If you read this page do me a favor! Become a followered and find me on twitter! Swingwife04! My dreams would be to get a good following and help educate and calm peoples fears on swinging. My other dream is to entertain and turn people on!
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